Reduce Stress for Children During the Holidays

The holidays are the most exciting time of year for children - and the most stressful.


For parents with children younger than 8 years old, the Texas Medical Association offers the following.

  • Try to maintain your child's regular sleeping, eating and playing schedule.  Familiar routines provide a sense of security.  When planning a visit to grandma or another holiday event, give your child advance notice.
     
  • Involve your kids in simple tasks, such as decorating the tree and baking cookies. Children derive a sense of belonging from taking part in holiday traditions.
     
  • When decorating the tree, hang the larger, unbreakable ornaments on the lower branches and the smaller, fragile ones on the higher branches out of children's reach.  Your children will enjoy touching the safe ornaments, and you will not constantly be saying, "No, don't touch."  For the same reason, place fragile, small and breakable decorations on mantles or high place where your kids cannot reach them even by climbing.
     
  • Let your children decide whether they want to sit in Santa's lap.  Young children may perceive that big, furry-faced man as a monster until they are 5-6 years old.
     
  • After a special event like talking to Santa, help your children label their feelings:  "Sounds like you're excited."  By accepting feelings, children can begin to cope with them in many ways.
     
  • When shopping with a preschooler, use a stroller, plan rest stops and snacks and be prepared to leave earlier than expected if necessary.
     
  • When children get cranky or tired, suggest a soothing activity.  Let them play in the bathtub (with supervision) with plastic cups and bubbles, or give them a pail of water to "paint" the sidewalk or fences.
     
  • Before Christmas pack up old toys except for one or two favorites.  In mid-January, when children are tired of playing with the new toys, bring out the old ones.  They will seem like new.
     
  • Avoid stress yourself.  Be realistic about how many holiday cards you can address or gifts you can wrap in one evening.  Children can sense your tension and often react by whining, clinging, fighting and waking up at night.  Sometimes putting away a chore so you can read a story to your child is best.

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